About me
Being a therapist is the best job in the world. I treasure my relationships with the people I work with. I feel deep purpose in holding space for and elevating voices that have been silenced or neglected. In order to be fully present as a counselor, I dedicate time outside of work to nurture my own peacefulness. I run, cook, bake, spend time with important people in my life, play with my kids, read novels, and work on my own healing journey. I intentionally maintain a small enough practice that allows me to deeply focus on my clients goals for therapy.
As a white, cisgender, straight, woman in my mid-30s, I am conscious of how my identities impact my work. I practice as an anti-racist, anti-oppressive, feminist therapist and acknowledge that there are times when I fall short of those aspirational identities. I value repairing ruptures and see it as my responsibility to earn the trust of those I engage with.
My childhood family is well acquainted with intergenerational trauma, which is where my desire to learn how to heal out of dysfunction started. I am in resistance to dehumanization and a fierce protector of our inherent right to live a life where we all feel safe and secure. I have learned to be steady in the face of really hard truths, including truths about myself that I would rather not see, and am not afraid to look at the worst of humanity. I can see my own light and darkness and that allows me to see the light and darkness in others. I can hold this tension without judgement. I believe in the power of apology and that repair work is always possible. I also believe that there are times we need to leave relationships when people prove that they are not interested in our well being. Being human is hard and beautiful and messy and healing work is sacred.